You’re worried about how it will look to everyone on the outside and truthfully, it’s the last little connection that you have to him and if we’re going to get really real here, you want to see what he’s up to. Him unfollowing you is a good thing though. This … Why Did My Ex Block Me? I noticed he started following girls that he told me not to worry about, girls he works with. So I got very angry and I broke up with him. Thank you so much for sharing. My ex hasn’t unfollowed me?! Looking at the evidence to understand the thinking of showrunners Dan Harmon and Justin Roiland. I guess it’s not okay to stick up for yourself apparently.. Hey Natasha, i stumbled across PMS a couple of weeks ago, and have become completely hooked! When should i unfollow him? I hope that I was able to help a little and thanks so much for reading xoxoxoxo, Hi Natasha This is the second time I’m reading this and this time I just decided to tell you my story. When being blocked on facebook by your ex, the first thing to consider is what brought you here. I know for a fact that I got a great closure from my side so I can happily move on but I can’t still help but feel affected by it. The fiery love between Mathew and Noah can no longer be contained. Girls are the ones who would usually do these things right. Or perhaps he won't do anything and you will get hurt because of his lack of care. Recently I found out shockingly that my ex from 6 years ago unfriended me after barely any contact for almost 3 years. Soon after things started to change. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. I know it’s hard, but you’ve got the right mindset and are doing the right thing by not continuing to feed your fears. We broke up 2 months ago we last spoke a month ago we was on good terms I said happy birthday she replied saying thank you. It will help. He never replied same as on messenger no reply just read it. Free e-mail watchdog. Would love your thoughts, please comment. I currently coach people in 19 different countries all over the world xoxo. I am just wondering why … Fast forward 3 months, we have had no contact whatsoever (no texts, calls, social media) and I decide to check his Instagram just to see how he was doing to only find out I was blocked and he had got back with his ex. Clearly he’s not the right guy for me after all.” She then blocks him again, only to start missing him again over and over. With me and apparently even more in his current “happy” relationsh*t lol if you’re reading this, it’s ok. It’s better to let him go. because I ruminate on the thought of what I did, why I wasn’t good enough, did our time dating actually mean anything to her, was I used as a rebound from her ex? I deleted him on all forms of social media, but he still follows me on everything and watches all my snap stories. I can’t understand why he only deleted me on snapchat so soon for one and he didn’t delete me on snapchat last time we broke up (which was due to his depression)? All these are a little baffling to me, and it hurts me twice as much cause i felt he dumped me again for the second time. I’m so happy that the post helped!! Is it like that Natasha? But him unfriending me takes away the last fantasy I have, and that makes me more mad than sad! I think he’s trying to control your exposure to the total piece of sh*t he unfolded to be. Then later I saw in his friend’s insta that him, his friend, the girl his friend is trying to get with and also the girl he went for a walk with were all going for a road trip. Still, each time I’ve been disassociated from in the land of Facebook, I’m left wondering what I did wrong. It's embarrassing to mention publicly, but after a particularly upsetting breakup, I became obsessed with the idea that the relationship wasn't really over because he hadn't unfriended me … I’m so happy that the blog has helped Love you Vasiliki. The thing is, if he does indeed miss you, he should do a lot more than continue to follow you and watch your snap stories. I’ve just read this, and I have the opposite issue. I wanted to do more activities with him (dates, adventures) and I wanted better communication skills. I have a question for you- my ex unfollowed me on Instagram a little less than a year ago and it was hurtful because I like to think we are still friends. I for my part am feeling like I’m on a good way and your words just helped me understand the last struggle that this relationship has thrown in my way. Last week, one of my girlfriends noticed that her ex had unfollowed her on all of her social media accounts. And seeing my ex posting pics and statuses that had nothing to do with me felt like he was winning the breakup, while I was losing by a long shot. Then two days later he’s in a relationship and has removed me from both Instagram and Twitter. My ex didn’t block me everywhere/completely. I sent him a nice text asking when are we rescheduling? Dated a guy for over 3 years, we broke up and he started dating someone else within a week. Keep coming back here to the blog. Your advice is amazing and you’re always so spot on so hopefully you have some insight for me xoxo, Thank you so much :)) I think that that’s a good sign that he still wants to know: 1) what’s going on in your life 2) wants to come across as “mature” 3) still cares and misses you. While looking I found out he already unfriended me. xoxo. My ex of three years broke up with me completely unexpectedly after I caught him messaging a girl (claimed nothing really happened). Why would he still block me? Maybe I am the immature jerk here. Which made me feel all the bad things that you described so well. You want to win, you want to be chosen and you may be a bit of a people pleaser too. So maybe he’s married now…. Honestly”. But due to his studies and exam period he couldn’t talk to me properly and I always got angry about how little he tried as time went on. I do ask why and he just responds coldly and said he thought about it and doesn’t want me in his life basically. Because he was so manipulative and he is a narcissist for sure. Remain on your white horse and know that you are not alone – ever. So my apologies if I’m bringing bad vibes here in the comments ;/. Up until this point I had been cyber stalking her and after reading your posts decided to take an emotional break from Facebook and have not even been on for a week!! A couple months ago, I decided to unfriend my ex from Facebook. The problem is, he’s already proven to you that he’s incapable of respect. this girl was infatuated with me we slept together and spent every minute together for a month and then she dumped me out of no where for … I go to the gym way more than … If you do, it’s a win-win for you. Since then he has taken down the pictures of us together and unfollowed me on snapchat and instagram. (First bf and only bf I had) He even keeps viewing my snaps in Instagram there is an option there where you can see who views your snaps. Last time we talked 3 years ago, he said that he will not tell me if one day he gets married. Still, each time I’ve been disassociated from in the land of Facebook, I’m left wondering what I did wrong. But he still keeps my cousin on his list. Why would he go through the trouble of blocking me when we never were friends on social media since the break up? So, I believed him. But the thing 3 weeks before we broke up we were so happy in Paris. When I asked him about it (yeah I know – I shouldn’t have told him I noted, but I read your article too late!) Once I’d taken him off my radar, I had his full attention. If he had proven through his actions that he wasn’t toxic and had treated you well in the relationship, yes. He even said he wanted to keep in touch and that our breakup is sorta just “for now” and how when our distance ends he could possibly give me a better relationship. You won because you’re not with someone that’s incapable of a mutual relationship. + If you need further and more personalized help with your breakup, please look into working with me here. I’m sorry that I missed your comment and am just getting to it. We dated for around 6 months but moved very fast. but … Don’t think he did it just to hurt you. I could not agree more. Why you are blocked. I got upset at this guy I was seeing off and on. I did the same thing to a girl few days ago but she's not my girlfriend or anything. We dated for about 3 months but things moved VERY fast, I guess that should have been a red flag (also everything was about him, all of his exes it was their fault never his, and he truly never tried to really get to know me…clearly I didn’t want to take off my rose colored glasses…) He dictated the relationship and seemed to always want me around and things seemed really good (despite said glasses on)… I practically moved in with him and we were domestic AF… One day we got into a silly argument and he said he wanted solo time for the night, but then I didn’t hear from him for almost 2 days, when I finally confronted him he was cold and short and tried to make me feel guilty for having a human reaction to someone not speaking to them for 2 days..long story short- he said he cared but wasn’t ready for a relationship and didn’t want to lead me on (despite the fact that nothing about the 3 mo we were together was casual and we were pretty much inseparable). 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